The Power of Thoughts
As you may know by now, I am participating in several masterminds, and one of them is a business elevation book club for high-level women that I created. I created this support group to help women in business enjoy more resources and be able to apply the learning in real business life. Although it said business, it really is about life in general.
As you may know by now, I am participating in several masterminds, and one of them is a business elevation book club for high-level women that I created.
I created this support group to help women in business enjoy more resources and be able to apply the learning in real business life. Although it said business, it really is about life in general.
Anyway…
This week we are studying Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill, chapter one: Introduction: The Man Who “Thought” His Way Into Partnership With Thomas A. Edison.
An exciting chapter to set the tone of this incredible classical book.
I did a Facebook Live this morning about what I have learned from it and how I can apply the learnings directly to my life. Click here to watch it!
And for those who can’t watch the video below what I have learned so far and how you can apply it to your life.
Thoughts are things!
THE POWER OF THOUGHTS
Mindpower is one of the strongest and most useful powers you possess. This power consists of your thoughts.
The thoughts that pass through your mind are responsible for everything that happens in your life.
Your predominant thoughts influence your behavior and attitude and control your actions and reactions.
THOUGHTS SHAPE YOUR LIFE
The way you think about yourself turns into your reality. If you draw inaccurate conclusions about who you are and what you’re capable of doing, you’ll limit your potential.
What you think directly influences how you feel and how you behave. So if you think you’re a failure, you’ll feel like a failure.
Then, you’ll act like a failure, which reinforces your belief that you must be a failure.
Once you draw a conclusion about yourself, you’re likely to do two things; look for evidence that reinforces your belief and discount anything that runs contrary to your belief.
Your beliefs keep you from performing at your peak.
Keeping a Positive Perspective
Challenge your conclusions: you can choose how you think.
The Think and Choose Again Method by Gabby Bernstein
Acknowledge the negative thought
Forgive your self for having such a thought
Choose again. Choose a positive thought to replace the negative one.
Alter Your Perception and Change Your Life
Look for evidence to the contrary. Ex. If you think you are a failure, look for evidence you’re not.
Challenge your beliefs. If you’ve labeled yourself too wimpy to step outside of your comfort zone, force yourself to do something that feels a little uncomfortable.
Dealing With Obstacles
History has demonstrated that the most notable winners usually encountered heart-breaking obstacles before they triumphed. They won because they refused to become discouraged by their defeats.
— B. C. Forbes
Distance yourself from the drama
Step back and see the chaos from another perspective
Seek out necessary resources
Enlist a fresh pair of eyes to see what you may be missing
Gain perspective
Step away from the noise, seek help from others, talk to friends or loved ones who can offer a different assessment of the challenge.
Evaluate the obstacle
Use logic and sound judgment to avoid becoming emotionally enslaved to the task
Stay focused and committed
An obstacle is not intended to weaken your actions. It is an invitation to get clear on the process to advance to the next stage
Develop a growth mindset
Aspire toward continuous improvement and building on your successes
Hard Work and Labor
We were taught, "Just work hard at whatever job you get, and things will work out."
That's false.
Working hard at your job does not get you much.
When you work hard at a job where the boss doesn't value your efforts, all your hard work gets you are taken for granted.
Just working hard by itself will exhaust you and shorten your lifespan without any benefits to you.
The magic ingredient for career success and satisfaction is self-determination.
When you are the captain of the ship, you get to decide which way to sail. That's the only way to be successful in your career.
Facing Defeats and Temporary Failure
STEP 1 | Accept the Failure is Part of the Process
Understand it is not your final destination. It is a stepping-stone in your journey that is getting you to where you need to be
STEP 2 | Let your Frustration Out
PIN ME!
Once you have taken some time to walk it off and clear your head, you can then begin accepting what happened. The initial emotional rush will eventually dissipate, and you can then slowly return your focus to the issue at hand.
STEP 3 | Be Brutally Honest
It’s the most critical part of the process. It involves taking a couple of minutes to reflect on what happened and being brutally honest with ourselves on why it happened.
STEP 4 | Fail Forward
We fail forward by learning from our setbacks and making the necessary adjustments until we succeed. Every change we make, every person we meet, and every bit of information we absorb is coming together so we can create a different outcome.
OVER TO YOU NOW
I challenge you to spend 15 minutes every day in quiet contemplation. Ask the Universe for an idea that will empower you to achieve your primary burning desire.
JOURNAL ABOUT IT
Free write about your experience. Let the magic happen and avoid controlling the words that come out of your pen.
READ AGAIN
Read or read again the first chapter of Think and Grow Rich and approach it from a different perspective. Choose to see and learn from a self-growth and determination perspective.
Also, make time to reread your writing. This action has great power in our thoughts and gives us clarity.
SHARE & DISCUSS YOUR THOUGHTS
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How To Make Your Network Marketing Business Work With Your Mom Life
I have always been a target for every network marketing opportunity out there. Even more since I became a mama! Why? Because, network marketers assume that mamas want to explore new professional opportunities as most of us don’t want to go back to work after giving birth.
I have always been a target for every network marketing opportunity out there. Even more, since I became a mama!
Why?
Because network marketers assume that mamas want to explore new professional opportunities as most of us don’t want to go back to work after giving birth.
I get it, I am one of them!
They think that we want more freedom.
Time freedom
Financial freedom
Best deals
A community of like-minded women
- just to name a few - are some of the perks that network marketing companies offer to moms.
And for most of us, they are right. But here is the thing…
Network marketing is not an easy and quick way to make money and enjoy more time freedom.
Nope!
If you want to make it work, you need to lean in. AND. WORK.
… not harder, but definitely smarter.
While I was very skeptical for a long time, I finally gave a shot and here what happened.
NOTHING!
You hear me right. Nothing happened for me during my first year in business.
I did EVERYTHING my upline told me to do, starting with my list of a hundred contacts. Guess what? No one joined. Even worst, they completely stopped to reply to my spammy messages, which by the way, I know why!
I hosted home-parties as well. You should know that I am a very private person, and I HATE having strangers at my place. BUT, I was told to, so I did it. Guess what? No one joined.
I went to hotel meetings. I drove sometimes long hours to meet someone who was not even close to sign-up.
I posted pictures of me and my AMAZING shakes every day on Social Media. I thought it was pretty cool until I receive a negative comment! I was ANNOYING!
Ouch! It was hard. I did not expect that.
I was working my ass off for little to NO results. I missed some of my son’s firsts. I could not do it anymore.
I was SAD. FRUSTRATED. UNMOTIVATED. UNINSPIRED. OVERWHELMED. DISAPPOINTED. I was everything but HAPPY nor SUCCESSFUL.
It is pretty much what most moms experience when they finally joined their network company.
But I did not give up
I am not a quitter.
Not long ago, when I was about ready to close that painful page, I found and learned a new way to build and grow my business using effective online strategies ONLY.
Like every new skillset you learn, it took a little bit of time and discipline to make it work, but it is so so worth it!
Nothing in Life is easy to get. However, it’s always SIMPLE.
One step at the time, you always go further, and it is what I did.
Little by little, I changed my mindset, build my reputation and my audience. Little by little, I saw my business grow from nothing to something.
It felt so good!
I AM NOT SAYING THAT IT IS EASY BUT IT IS SIMPLE
And so worth it. Are you ready to follow my step-by -step formula?
If so, read on!
I will tell you everything.
Below some more!
STEP #1 | I BUILD ONLINE
I build my network marketing business completely online.
Not long ago, I signed up for a FREE 10-day Bootcamp that has changed my life and my business forever. The book ATTRACTION MARKETING that I bought from them completely shift my mindset and my way to operate my business.
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I trusted that I was able to learn new skills to take my business online and I did it!
The best part of that program was that I started to make extra money while learning new skills that I was going to duplicate eventually with my network marketing business.
Anyway!
Before, I was spammy and overwhelmed. I was building the “old way,” by hosting home parties, going to hotel meetings, posting products and selfies on social media, sending awkward messages to strangers.
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I honestly did it all.
IT DID NOT WORK FOR ME!
I was trying to hard to be someone else.
I was ignoring my true self.
I was unauthentic, and, let’s not BS you, I was freaking annoying with my friends and family.
I HATED EVERY PART OF MY BUSINESS
I had no fun at all.
You may know my story by now…
I was about ready to quit when I learned about Attraction Marketing.
From there, my business started to grow steadily. I receive leads and prospects while I am sleeping.
My business is working for me.
Not the other way around.
I am happy. I am having FUN building and creating value to my business.
I have more and more time freedom and financial freedom.
I freaking enjoy my mom life, my wife life, my woman life and then my business life.
I AM EMPOWERED
Below is an overview of what I have learned since I started:
How to attract and recruit an army of people into my Network Marketing business without so much as picking up the phone.
How to use the internet to put an end to rejection and frustration, and sponsor people with ease.
How to use email to automatically grow my prospect list, build relationships, and fatten my bank account… all in one fell swoop.
The BEST way to filter out tire kickers and lookie-loo’s and get serious people to look at and join my business.
How to add brand new streams of income to my existing Network Marketing business… even from people who don’t join you.
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STEP #2 | I DO NOT MULTITASK
While it is easy to do many things at the same time, I choose not to.
When I am with my son and/or my husband, I am 100% present with them. My phone is away, and they have my whole attention.
When I work on my business. I am 100% committed to it.
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WHEN YOU MULTITASK YOU DO NOT GIVE YOUR BEST
Your energy is spread, and you are missing your growth MOMENTUM big time.
Are you convinced already?
ORGANIZATION IS CRUCIAL
I hear you.
Organizing my day around my baby and my business needs has done wonders for me.
While not multitasking has been a game-changer for me. Organization still remain vital to make thing happen.
Again… not saying that it is easy, but it is simple.
Discipline will drive you very far.
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As said, it is not easy.
FLEXIBILITY IS A MUST
As I am writing down those lines, my baby wants to be with me. He is on my lap! I know that, right now, my attention is spread in between my beautiful baby and my business.
It takes me forever to write my words.
… I feel guilty of multitasking!
But you know what?
Life happens for everyone of us. I choose to not have a nanny right now because baby O, is too small.
Gabby Bernstein says to feel good no matter what
So I choose to feel good because as she says:
The more we feel good, the more we attract what we want.
In other words, if I feel good about it, and let go of the guilt, I am attracting more moments where I will be able to focus.
Would you agree?
STEP #3 | I HAVE A POWERFUL MORNING ROUTINE
And if I do not do it, it is harder for me to be productive during my day!
I had a small surgery not long ago, so I had to adapt my morning routine but basically, it is pretty simple.
I woke up in between 6:30 and 7 AM. I still breastfeed my son who is only 3-month old. It clearly depends on how well he sleeps.
I adapt.
The first thing I do when I open my eyes is that I sit straight in my bed, put my earplugs on and press play to my morning meditation.
Nowadays I use this one here: chapter 11 - morning meditation.
I spend 5 minutes to thank the Universe and be grateful for a new day of opportunities.
Then, I go to my studio and I do 10 rounds of vinyasa. I breathe in and out!
[I would normally work out] and SHOWER!
I would eat my energetic breakfast while watching an inspiring video, or workshop.
Note that I have not opened my inbox yet!
Only after I brush my teeth and check on my baby, I will check my emails and start replying to them, to the comments on social media, to the texts and more.
Do you have a morning routine?
One that empowers you so much that you feel empty when you skip it? I would love to hear from you and get inspired.
Also, I became obsessed with Gabby Bernstein and her super attractor. Along with the book, she released a mediation album in which you will find different types of meditations. From affirmation and mantra meditations to invoking your angels’ ones, she is like the Universe…
She has your back.
STEP #4 | I HAVE OTHER STREAMS OF INCOME
Yes, I do Network Marketing and I love it.
And it is so much fun when you do it the right way.
We talked about that already!
But I love many other things, especially writing and creating content.
So that’s naturally that I found my way to affiliate marketing.
There are three programs that I love dearly:
Elite marketing pro, which is a program that helps network marketers to thrive in their journey. I started with them by taking their FREE recruiting training and I ended becoming a VIP affiliate. I am having so much fun!
Ultimate bundles, in which you get to promote wonderful bundles. You can even submit yours and make money out of them.
Amazon. Everybody knows the Amazon affiliate program. It really is an easy way to get started with affiliate marketing.
All of those three programs are easy to join and do not require a huge following. If you want to learn more about them, feel free to comment below, and I will be in touch.
STEP # 5 | Every time I can I get inspired
Last but not least, I get inspired every single day.
I stopped binge-watching crappy tv shows during my lunchtime to get inspired with awesome videos.
You know what?
That brings me the most joy and energy to create new things.
I also get out of my house and take the time to be present with my son. We talk, walk and play at parks.
I come back refreshed, full of energy, motivation, and inspiration. That has no price.
What are your things to get inspired on a daily basis?
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